The weekly circle
A live two-hour circle, capped so every man can be heard. You say what's actually going on, out loud, to men who will remember it.
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Fire Circle · Weekly group coaching
No Exits.No excuses.
Meet with Jonathan and a group of men every week to review what you committed to, work through what got in the way and decide what you will practise next. Said out loud, in front of men who remember.
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$29.99 first month$99.99 monthly afterCancel any time
At a glance 9 key facts
The weekly circleLive two hours. Tuesday for your first month, then Wednesday or Sunday becomes your regular night
Direct coachingYou rate your issue 1 to 5. The most urgent get the room, coached by me, live
Weekly commitmentsBuild one, starve one. Read back at the start of the next call, kept or not kept
The Full AuditEvery area read in depth, turned into a 90-day plan, then retaken so you see both readings side by side
The communityThe room, the resources and the men on Circle between calls, plus a WhatsApp group
Guided meditationLive, every other Saturday, led by a practitioner with over 10,000 hours
TeachingA masterclass every month, plus a vault of 50+ hours
Quarterly detoxThe whole room takes one on together: body, digital, substance or sexual, with a live intensive
Entry$29.99 first month, then $99.99. Cancel any time
Who the room is for
Men ready to stop feeding the pattern.
You might be leading a company, raising a family, rebuilding after a difficult period, or simply tired of losing evenings to porn, gaming, substances, or whatever your favourite form of avoidance is. Doesn't matter how it shows up. What matters is you're done being weak about it. Honesty, participation and action are the only requirements.
It fits if
- ✓ You have something specific you will commit to for 90 days.
- ✓ You're already carrying weight, and you know you could carry it better.
- ✓ You want brothers who notice the week you go quiet, not just a group that tracks your commitments.
- ✓ You are tired of private compromises becoming public consequences.
- ✓ You want structure, pressure and action rather than endless content.
It does not fit if
- ✕ You're not ready to commit to anything specific for 90 days.
- ✕ You want motivation with no follow-through required.
- ✕ You need clinical support rather than coaching, practice and standards.
- ✕ You want to listen in without ever being the one talking.
- ✕ You think you have nothing to work on. Every man has something.
One thing is non-negotiable: every man who joins names one specific 90-day commitment. The commitment is to yourself. The membership is cancel any time.
What you get inside
Six parts. One weekly rhythm.
A weekly call, direct coaching on the most urgent issue, two spoken commitments, a full audit, a quarterly reset and a teaching library. Here is how each one works.
Direct coaching
You rate your issue from 1 to 5. The most urgent go to the room: relationship, discipline, money, or a recurring destructive pattern. Two to three men get the room's full attention each week, coached by me live and backed by the men around you.
Said out loud, in front of men
You leave every circle with two clear commitments, one to build and one to eliminate, spoken in front of the room rather than written in a private note. The room is the accountability.
The Full Audit
The full version, not the five-minute snapshot. Every area of your life read in depth and turned into a 90-day plan the room holds you to. Then you take it again, so you can see the two readings side by side. That comparison is not a feeling. It is evidence most men go their whole lives without.
The quarterly reset
Once every ninety days, the room takes on a shared discipline reset: digital, substance, or sexual. Declared publicly and checked weekly. Ninety clean days becomes its own kind of proof.
The teaching
A live masterclass every month from me or a guest mentor, plus a vault of more than fifty hours of recorded teaching to use whenever you need it.
From inside the room
I had the conversation with my wife I had avoided for six months.
I stopped hiding the relapse and told the room. My children now get my attention rather than what is left of it.
I stopped disappearing into my phone when conflict began. That's the whole difference, most weeks.
How the week works
One night a week. Fixed at first, then yours to choose.
Every new member starts on Tuesday for their first month. After that, you pick whichever suits your week better, Sunday or Wednesday, still one circle a week.
1xcall a week
Mon
Tue7-9pm ET
Wed7-9pm ET
Thu
Fri
SatSome Saturdays
Sun11am-1pm ET
Your call this stage
Either works, your pick
Your first month
No guessing what happens after you join.
WEEK 102
Your first circle
You say what you are building and what you are starving, out loud. Men now expect you back.
WEEKS 2 AND 303
The room holds you
The men who heard your commitments ask how they went. Nothing gets quietly dropped.
WEEK 404
You see the evidence
You review what you kept and where you let yourself off, then set next month's target as a number you report back on.
Joining
One month to see what changes.
The first month gives you the room, the coaching and the commitments. When the room opens, seats go in the order men register, so join early in the week rather than on the night.
Included
- A live two-hour circle every weekDirect coaching from Jonathan, live, with the most urgent issue getting the room
- Two commitments, said out loudOne habit to build and one to eliminate, read back the next week
- The Full Audit and a 90-day planThe deeper reading, taken again so you can see the change
- The quarterly resetThe room takes on one discipline together every ninety days
- Teaching and communityA monthly masterclass, a vault of 50+ hours, the community on Circle and a WhatsApp group
- Cancel any time, from inside the roomNo notice, no conversation, no minimum term
$29.99 USDyour first monthThen $99.99 a month · opens in the new year
Common questions
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Fit & eligibility
How does this relate to the other programs?
The Fire Circle holds you every week. Keys to the Kingdom takes your relationship further in six weeks. When you are ready for more, Unshakable Foundations is where you rebuild. Once that base holds, 100 Days of Fire is the deepest work I run, the initiation itself. Men join the Circle directly, and Unshakable Foundations and Keys to the Kingdom both include Fire Circle months, so the room is there for every route in.
Is this therapy or group counseling?
No. I am not a therapist and this is not clinical treatment. This is a live room where men bring the week they actually had and get held to the standard they set. This is not a session about processing feelings for their own sake.
What's the minimum age?
Twenty-one. We'll sometimes consider eighteen to twenty, decided man by man in a direct conversation first.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. What happens in the room stays in the room. Break that and you're removed from the community, no exceptions.
How it works
Are the weekly circles recorded?
Yes, for training purposes, so I can review how the room is run. Only I see the recordings, they are never published, and they are deleted once reviewed. The guided meditation is not recorded. If you would rather not be recorded, tell me and I will keep you out of it, with no effect on your place. Full details are in the privacy policy.
Who else is in the room?
Men from different backgrounds and different seasons of life. Some are building businesses, some are raising families, some are rebuilding after a hard chapter. What they share is a willingness to own the truth and get stronger alongside other men.
How many men are on a call?
Small enough that every man gets heard, and I keep it that way on purpose. Once a room gets large, men stop speaking and start spectating. Seats are taken in the order men register, so if you leave it until the night you may be waiting for the following week.
How often does it meet?
Tuesday and Wednesday, 7:00pm to 9:00pm Eastern (4:00pm to 6:00pm Pacific, or the early hours the next day in London: 12:00am to 2:00am). Sunday, 11:00am to 1:00pm Eastern (8:00am to 10:00am Pacific, 4:00pm to 6:00pm London). Every new member starts on Tuesday for their first month. After that, you choose whichever suits your week better, Sunday or Wednesday, still one circle a week.
Do I need my camera on?
Cameras on is strongly preferred. The work runs on presence and witnessed commitments. If you have a good reason you can't, tell me before the session.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. It is $29.99 for the first month and $99.99 a month after, and you can leave whenever you want. Cancelling stops the next payment and you keep access until the month you are in runs out. Part-months are not refunded. If you know you are staying and would rather pay annually, ask in your first call.
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